I have my husband’s funeral tomorrow and not ready to say that final goodbye.
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My husbands funeral was on 9 December. I dont really believe in funerals myself but did it for everyone else really as it was a sudden unexpected death. I think it helped others. I coped by talking and hugging as many people who I could. I then messaged everyone to thank them for attending and asking them to keep in touch etc.
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Awful as it is, you may actually find some comfort amongst his mourners. I was dreading my partner’s funeral and did break down a couple of times but I felt that the wake afterwards, where people were talking about him, was helpful. Be brave tomorrow ( as brave as you can.) You will get through it for his sake. I wish you well.
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Thank you for your kind words, I’ve felt so alone this Christmas without him and going into the new year without him terrifies me. We were together 14 years and he passed away 23rd nov had two cardiac arrests. we have a son who’s 13 and daughter who’s 10, I’m trying my hardest to be strong for them. Also I’m so sorry to hear about your loved ones
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How did your day go? I hope you are ok? My hubby passed 3 days ago & I have 2 children 13 and 18. I’m so sorry you are in pain, the pain I feel is like nothing I thought was ever possible.
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It was the hardest day of my life sorry for the late reply I just shut everything out yesterday to be alone with kids. I’m so sorry for your loss it’s so hard isn’t it without them.
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