Hi I am struggling I need help I don’t know what to do about the future it’s just a situation I don’t like thinking about I’ve been keeping busy since my husband passed in October he left to go to work in Blackpool it was unexpected I had police officer come knocking on the door to inform me he’d passed I couldn’t go get him because my daughter was due her baby in couple of weeks and she didn’t want me to leave her , I was her birthing partner it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do I was broken but had to be there for my daughter she’d lost her dad and she needed me . My husband didn’t have life insurance so I have to sell our family home which goes on market end of this month I’m scared what happens next ?? How do I keep it together I just want him back I can’t do this without him :pensive::broken_heart:


Hello @Kiddo74,

I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. It sounds as though things are very hard at the moment and you are worried about the future.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share these links with you to help you with your grief.

You might already be familiar with our other Online Bereavement Support services, but if not, you can find out more about our Online Counselling service, our Grief Coach text support service, and our Grief Guide self-help tools by visiting the link.

Take care - keep reaching out,


I’m so sorry for your loss, and your terrible dilemma. Please hang on in there. Your daughter needs you, and you need her.
I also feel I cant go on without my husband. But we can, and we must. You have your daughter and grandchild. You have to be there for each other.
I don’t know how you will resolve the problem of your house, but please be aware we are here to listen when you need to reach out.
Love and hugs to you

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