Hi I come on here with good news my one son and his partner are having a baby in Jan but I feel bitter sweet has my husband is not here to share the news so I want to be happy but I can’t be happy
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It is probably the biggest thing we find hard to face, to be able to experience joy and pleasure again after a loss.
You are living it for both you and your husband now, so he would want you to celebrate it the way he would.
Congratulations
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Hi @Sandypaws022
That’s good news
Someone at a bereavement group had the same thing happened to them .
Hi sandypaws,congratulations on yu
Hi sandypaws,congratulations on your news your going to be a nan,I lost my wife at Christma and my granddaughter is having her first baby in October ,Jackie would have been so proud to be a great nan again but it’s not to be .im sorry you feel you can’t be happy the sadness is terrible but I’m sure your partner would have been over the moon at your news so do try to be happy for him ,you can give your grandchild all the love your partner would give .i know im a grandad of 9 and great grandad of 3 soon to be 4.its alright saying be happy I haven’t been happy since loosing Jackie ,but your son and his partner will be there for you on the day ,im sure your going to be an absolutely brilliant Nan . Regards Dave
My son had twin girls last week, im so blessed to have good family around, im trying to keep busy but today was a complete meltdown and my middle son had to come and get me. But home now with dogs and trying to occupy my mind.x
It’s wonderful that you have a family, I have none. I live all alone in a foreign country trying to figure out what to do with my life…
Hugs from Janka
Janka ive sent you a PM
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Thank you, Dave! It means very much to me… Janka