Hi how do I cope with lose 2 baby’s and I’ve now been told I can’t have kids I just don’t no who to talk to or what to do
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about your losses and your recent news. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that might be helpful.
Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Hi Kayley I am so sorry for your losses and the very sad news about not being able to have any further children. Grief is a very painful process and I am still learning myself how to navigate it. I have no advice but I can tell you that getting through an hour at a time is an achievement for me. Life will go on but differently. Someone told me that our bodies are just vessels and that our spirits continue on. I have no idea if that is true but I do take comfort in believing there is more than just this life and that my mum is watching over me all the time. Sending you virtual hugs x