Grief in the early days

I recently lost my father, and although we had some weeks to prepare the end happened really quick, almost too quick to get my head around. I can’t get his death out of my mind, I was with him all the way to the end and it was so traumatic seeing him distressed and not my dad. I feel so guilty eating food as he was unable to and I feel so guilty being around my husband and children for laughing so I just don’t.


Hello @Lilly2529 ,

I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your dad that brings you here.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.

Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.

Take care,