Grief

I have recently lost my nan but she was more like my mum she was the stability in my life I lived with her from being 11 and I just feel empty. I do not get along with my mum (Nan’s daughter) can not forgive her for what she has put not just me and my brother through but also her own mother who chose to take her children on!
I feel empty and although I have my aunty there for support I feel alone

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Hello @dottyplunk,

I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling empty and alone. I’m so sorry to hear about your nan. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. In the meantime, you may wish to look at these Sue Ryder resources which might be helpful.

  • Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief

  • Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.

You might also want to look at Losing a grandparent Sue Ryder Grief Guide

I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.

Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.

Take care,

Alex