grief

Coping with bereavement
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i lost the love of my life on 12 dec 2025 her birthday was on the 18 dec 2025 week after her passing. she was the best person you could ever meet, its 12 weeks now but finding it hard to type this we were joined at the hip according to the kids thats it for now

bluebirdd

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so very sorry bluebirdd. We all missed our loved ones so very much. My partner was so funny and kind - I lost him Jan 16th. We are all here on this horrible journey together. How old are your kids? x

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So sorry for your loss Bluebirdd. These first few months are so difficult and the grief is all consuming. I hope you have good people to talk to.

Take care x

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hi nikfabs, my kids are 51 and 44 they both live 70 miles away but keep coming as often as work permits. unfortunatly my neighbours are are not very good all young ones who dont want to no 73 year olds. as they have moved into the bungalows that all my and caroles friends died in the past 12 months its supposed to be for retired people.

thanks peg2

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thats sounds tough @bluebirdd great your kids come as often as they can though. Neighbours a funny old things. I know mine quite well but we rarely meet for a cup of tea or anything

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carole passed with terminal overian cancer a very rare type called clear cell

i now have been told by my daughter 2 weeks ago that she has lymphoma blood cancer so a am now back to more stress waiting for 23 march to tell her what can be done and wondering what the point of life is. this place you have has been good to see that what i am going through is normal and not me being mad

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Its a kind of mad @bluebirdd to be honest but we are all going through it and stronger together talking

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it’s now 3 may and my daughter has still not seen her consultant they have made her an appointment for 11 may its more than mad nikfabs my stress level is at breaking point. what is the point in life when you just suffer continuous pain

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It sounds terrible @bluebirdd what an absolutely stressful time.

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this is the song that describes me and Carole to a t, as i think of my Carole we were both as one miss here so much. bad day

My love
There’s only you in my life
The only thing that’s right
My first love
You’re every breath that I take
You’re every step I make

And I
I want to share
All my love with you
No one else will do
And your eyes
Your eyes, your eyes
They tell me how much you care
Oh, yes, you will always be
My endless love

Two hearts
Two hearts that beat as one
Our lives have just begun
Forever (Ohhhhhh)
I’ll hold you close in my arms
I can’t resist your charms

And love
Oh, love
I’ll be a fool
For you
I’m sure
You know I don’t mind
Oh, you know I don’t mind
'Cause you
You mean the world to me
Oh, I know
I know
I’ve found in you
My endless love

Oooh-woow
Boom, boom
Boom, boom
Boom, boom
Boom, boom
Boom, boom
Boom, boom
Boom, boom

Oh, and love
Oh, love
I’ll be that fool
For you
I’m sure
You know I don’t mind
Oh, you know I don’t mind
And I don’t mind

And, yes
You’ll be the only one
'Cause no one can deny
This love I have inside
And I’ll give it all to you
My love
My love, my love
My endless love