I still find it difficult it to deal with the loss of my dad. It’s an ongoing battle for me.
Hello @Frank1, I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. I can see from your posts that you lost him 20 years ago. It’s completely understandable that you still miss him, there is no time limit on grieving.
I’m just giving your thread a gentle bump for you - hopefully someone will along to offer their support.
You can’t expect me to just forget him and move on just like that.
@Frank1 hi i fully understand how you are feeling there isn’t any timetable as to overcoming grief.
I still miss my grandmother who we lost over 40 years ago then my parents who passed away 7 days apart, i still miss those moments we had together i will never forget them you shouldn’t be sad im sure that your dad would want you to have a full and happy life you can do all this without forgetting what time you had together as humans we do have the ability to move on but that doesn’t mean wiping out cherished memories.
Take care mike
You expect me to move on and forget that he’s gone?
I am so sorry that you feel this way nobody is telling you to Forget.
If you are feeling this way i suggest you get professional advice and counselling this forum is not for you
I get that you don’t know what to say to me. For the record I did have counseling but going to have another session.