Growth through bereavement

Has anyone else read things about how people can grow and transform as a result of losing your partner? Such comments make me angry because I was OK as I was. I was an ok person. I don’t want to grow and - I just want my husband back


I take no notice of those who say things when they have no idea what they’re talking about. We would all love to have our loved ones back but sadly we can’t have that, but we do have them in our hearts safe in the knowledge that nobody can take that away.
I’m sure you are a lovely person that is missing your husband terribly
and that it really hurts but hold on to the precious memories you have
Jen x


My sentiments exactly! How on earth can something positive ever come out of the loss of the person you thought you would spend the rest of your life with.
We grew as a couple and now I’m just lost, lonely and heartbroken on my own……