I desperately need help. My husband died early March this year. My son has not been any help or support at all. He has sent me the most hateful and nasty message and as well as grieving i have to come to terms with that and i cant even talk about it because i have to consider the feelings of my granddaughters who are unaware of any rift. I feel like dying.
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I am so sorry to read your post. Families can be so very hurtful.
Everyone here will do their best to support you.
Sending love and strength. Xx
hello sorry for your loss a sentence we use quite a lot but i know how you feel time to think of you i would take no heed of what your son says easy for me to say i also have two sons and one can get quite stroppy but i dont take notice he is my son and i love him but when i dont see him for a while it doesnt bother me so as i know hes fine i just ignore any crap he says i lost my husband of 47 years 12 weeks ago so i know this is a crap time for us all you will get some positivity back and you are probably loved very much by your grandaughters so take no notice of what has been said your doing your best at this really bad time
I know how that feels I have been told by my daughter that i have not to cry on front of my grandaughter who is 3 because i am upsetting her. My son as two daughters I have seen him and them twice in 9 weeks today of losing my husband. I spend many lonely hrs alone and crying. I have been told by my brother that this is my life now and i have to except it. I have seen him once. Its hard and unbearable but I think when I am stronger I will have less to thank them for. Always message me if you need a chat. Hugs Jo xxx
Wow, like really wow? That is so sad that your families can’t or won’t support you. That must be so soul destroying, on top of your losses. Is it today’s world, have people lost so much compassion. My god I feel so sorry for you.
I thin they have . Its as to say so long as it doesn’t interrupt on our lifes thats fine. I always thought i would have had my family how wrong was I . I never realised just how selfish and uncaring some are. Hugs Jo xxx
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Hi Jo, it sounds like your relatives don’t deserve to have you in their lives if they can cut you off at a time like this. I wish I could offer you some advice or support I feel sorry for you.
Aww bless you and ty for caring, I have always tried to be there for my family even neighbours come to that. But beside one neighbour theres no one . All o get told is how busy they all are. And yes I appreciate there lives go on its mine thats stopped. But i did hope there would be more support. I sit here hour after hour not hearing another human voice. Lonely doesn’t even come close to how I feel. Hugs Jo xxx
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Oh, Jo. I have just posted exactly the same on the Sunday post. I feel like Jilly-no-mates.
Hugs xx
Awful isnt Willow the tears fall fast ,i feel so down and low. Hugs Jo xxx
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