I’m new here today, I thought I’d read comments of how people feel when a partner dies to see if it may help what I’m going through.
Though I don’t know why as iv lost 2 partners, my son ,my parents and grandparents so I’m know grief.
This time it’s me who has a terminal illness with limited time,I’m grieving for my old self I think I’m lost lonely scared and also know I shouldn’t be selfish not wanting my partner to find someone new 1 day but it’s too hard and each day it gets worse, just reading your story’s I guess help and I know full well we never forget our loved ones I’m just hurting.
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Hello, your post is such a sad one and I don’t know how I would react if it was me leaving my soulmate.
My soulmate asked me if I would remarry and I couldn’t say yes or no because I had no idea how I would feel when he had gone. Now sometime down that road I know perfectly well it will never happen, just no way for me.
The other part to your post about being scared. I had a very good friend who was given a short time and told me not to be afraid but think of it as going on a unexpected holiday and no need to pack a suitcase or find your passport, you just had to wait and everything would be taken care off. A new life but with those you love waiting for you.
I don’t know if that’s what happens but it’s helped others and it’s what I feels right for me.
Enjoy yourself while you can and please don’t be frightened of something you don’t know.
My love and blessings to you and all those you love. S xxx
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Loved ones are never forgotten
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Thank you Susie,
Yes I do feel that way 5/7 days I guess, I’m referring more to the end , the way my condition ends is usually fighting to breath ( suffocation really) and that is sometimes for a long time.
I’m usually the kind of person to live life each day as best I can but lately that means I can’t do anything at all! So the mind wanders
I tend to lie awake and worry how my kids all grown up, will cope and feel sad they will go through it but again tommorow isn’t promised to any of us is it and we carry on , I hope your ok yourself x
Thank you cas
Your right loved ones are never forgotten