Hi Ian
What a lovely picture of you and your wife did you lose her recently? If you need to chat especially when your family are away I am here as are many others on this site x
Lost her 21st June this year Helen the longest day and it really was , that was taken in London at an Italian we were eating there before we took in a show we went to see Beverly knight in the show can’t seem to recall the show name though, and thank you for responding xx alot of lovely people in here I’m so glad I joined. Us guys seem to be out numbered, so come on ladds speak up make your self known that picture about 4 years old might be slightly more ill lok for a more recent one, but I love that one xx
Hi Ian your loss is very recent and your wife must have been very young. I am sure it’s going to be hard but remember to be kind to yourself and give yourself the time and space you need. X
She was 56 Helen 10 yrs my younger xx
Hi Ian you both look a lot younger than that. Still that’s no age to lose her. We’re you married long? This is me and my mom
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Josean as it’s been said already we all totally understand how your feeling and we have all been there or at the same stage as yourself . I agree about not having partner to come home to I hate it . I lost my husband two years ago very suddenly and he really was my rock
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@Helen0709 @Kazzer lovely photos guys and thank you for sharing them it make it all seem more reel we was living together helen for many years and one day 12 years ago I decide from out of the blue I’d ask sue to marry me, it was a wonderfully simple wedding my daughter were bridesmaids and I wanted her to have my name, to me she seemed odd man out not having it and we were married I’m mad we paid our mortgage this year so we had it all to live for but hey oh, wasn’t to be i tell you all out r story at some point regards illnesses xx
Rob and I had been together for 34 years and married for 33years
33 years for us kaz
Rob was also 56 when he passed he was two years younger than me .we had no prior warning he hadn’t been Ill or anything then wham a massive heart attack ,I had to do cpr on him I did manage to get him breathing again which gave the kids chance to get there and be with him . Life just seems so unfair and the loneliness is just beyond words
Iknow kaz, life so trash isn’t it got up earlier and boom open your eyes and it hits you like a sledge hammer, I really don’t know the answer, if I did I’d pass it round to all. I think I may have one of those days today 
What I find strange is my sues on my mind 24/7 but iv never dreamed about her yet since she died how can that be???
My mom is on my kind everyday still but I haven’t had a dream about her either
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Keep on keeping on Ian stay strong you doing amazing I’m sure KTF
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Doing my best kaz, thank you 
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Ian I don’t doubt that for one minute it’s all we can do my friend . I try to live each day and make Rob proud .
Every one seems quiet today for some reason, maybe all in same mood has iv been in , bless all of you 
Hi Ian hope you are OK. I have been having a quiet day of reflection today so not been on here much. Oh and thanks for your nice comments on the photo. Off to bed now, speak soon
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Good my dear tc and sleep well
Morning Ian I was working yesterday so didn’t get chance to get on here , I seem to be coming on here more again , don’t know if it’s just because I need to chat to others who understand my feelings or what it is. I’m at work again today but not until this afternoon so I’m having a chilled morning . Hope your feeling a little better and you have probably had it said to you a thousand times but it takes time and that time is different for all of us as we are all different and cope with things differently . Take care kaz 
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