Hi please help me breathe, me and my two boys found my partner of 16 years dead on Thursday, he was only 34 on Monday, I don’t no how to get thew this, my poor baby’s 8 and 11 seeing their dad gone, how do you cope with so much pain I need him back he was our life
Really cant say anything that will make you feel better, but would sinply point out that this site is helping me deal with the very real pain we are all going through.
I am so sorry to hear that you are bereaved so young and with a young family, it is heartbreaking! All i can offer is to take it a day at a time, and keep any other family or friends as close as possible.
I am sure you will get lots of support on herexwithin hours.
@Chargant92 I am so sorry that you have to join this club. I know whatever I say right now will not help you feel any better. Please be assured their are others on here going through what you are going through.
You are at he very raw painful start of this journey and you have to go through it. Nothing can take it away. Take very small steps, minute by minute, hour by hour. Don’t think too far ahead as that is painful too.
Support is here for you. This site is great, you can say what you want, what you feel and we will understand. We have been there, we are there.
@Chargant92 I’m so sorry for your loss. It is such early days you will still be in shock about what has happened.
As the others have said just take things day by day or hour by hour. Whatever it takes to get through each day and take all help offered by family and friends.
This forum has been a lifesaver for me and hopefully you will find some comfort from it too. We are all on the same awful path so post on here as much as you need too.