Goodnight Dave
I’m glad you have been out in the sunshine, sleep well xx
Thanks going to bed in 5 mins xx
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Night night everyone, let’s hope we all manage a good sleep to take on tomorrow.
Goodnight i am going to bed. Xxx
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Goodnight all, hopefully tomorrow I won’t be so sad all day.
Have a good sleep xx
Goodnight Poppet
Hope you sleep well xx
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NIGHT ALL. XX
I’m 70 later this month. Andy was 70 last year and we had a lovely long family weekend away to celebrate. He then suddenly died 3 weeks later (totally out of the blue) Our birthdays are together, 22nd and 23rd. We were married 45 and a half years.
Hi,sponner. I hate saying this but my Sue also died on the 25th January. These past 3 weeks have been really hard on me and as i have said before my eating is crap. Today i am going to try and go to Alnwick Gardens as we used to go once a month, just to see the changes. Its my first time to go back since last year.I am hoping it will help me tonight with the trauma of that night 10 weeks ago. Sue has now been gone longer then her diagnosis. It doesn’t get any easier does it.
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Good morning to all you beautiful people let’s hope we have a good day, it’s raining here in wales but that sums my mood up this week, I haven’t got work today so going to relax for a bit then get up and go out for a drive, hope you’re all ok , take care xx
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Hi there sorry about your loss, strange we both lost our wife’s on the same day my life will never be the same again, with Sammy we knew it was coming as she was terminal cancer but it still doesn’t make things any easier, she was such a strong brave woman and I was so proud of how she fought that horrible disease. My eating and sleeping is awful at the moment as well, people say it gets easier and I hope there right but it doesn’t feel like it at the moment, hope everything goes ok for you today and try and stay strong 
x
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Thank you, sorry for your loss as well. It was my birthday on 23rd and i made her smile by telling Sue she had to make it up to me next year. Sue also died with cancer but we never got told it was terminal and Sue was had just finished her first chemotherapy, so i had the dreaded hope. I think i knew Sue would not last but we both thought she would have a couple of years not just over 9 weeks. Sorry crying now. Have a good day and you stay strong as well all of you.
You haven’t got to say sorry for crying I’ve just been doing it, I suppose with me I got to spend time with Sammy and do things before the inevitable we had plenty of lovely holidays and really enjoyed ourselves, but for for and other people it’s just so quick and I’m so sorry for that, lifes not fair is it
Hello Poppet
You know yesterday I said I wish I could dream of Mark. Something did happen, I woke up with a start, and I sensed Mark singing, but I couldn’t hear him singing, I just sensed it, but I didn’t know the song. When I woke up this morning, I googled the only words I could remember, which were, I was standing, and two worlds.
It turns out it’s a song by INXS and it’s called never tear us apart.
I love the lyrics and it has made me feel that he is somewhere, I know some people will think It’s silly.
Have a good day xx
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We had 33 years of marriage, and like you and everyone else. I would not swap that for anything. I know i was lucky in that respect. We lived in each others pocket and did most thing’s together. Which just makes life now harder and god do i miss her. Sue was my everything.
We had 10 years of marriage not in the same league as yourself we met a bit later in life, like you say about sue Sammy was everything, I feel lost with our her , but she kept banging on to me that I’ve got to get on with my life and I know she’s right it’s just so hard at the moment
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Morning. It’s not silly at all he was making you aware he’s always there.
I posted on here that last night I came in from meeting an old friend ready to cry n the television was on upstairs, just a blue screen saying it was turning off in one minute which it did. I turned it back on it was Digging for Britain which I never watch and it was about some Roman mosaics. My John was a history buff with a degree n his favourite topic was about Romans……Very strange…
Goodmorning everyone
Just getting up.not a bad sleep.lets hope today is a good day
Today is clean up day hoover comes out duster mop today os clean see what i can do.
Then have a shower and spend some money on me xx
Anyway lets have a good day hopefully. Got to have breakfast other wise i will be sick
Love and hugs for all today lol hugs xxx
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So sorry for your loss, I no what you mean about them being gone longer than the diagnosis. I only had 4 weeks with Mark from the cancer diagnosis, he’s been gone 19 weeks tomorrow.
Its nothing new with Wales lol, it always rained when we went to visit Marks parents.
Its sunny here but cold.
Try and have a good day x