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Losing a partner
1921

@Diggerdave
I keep trying Dave. It’s the usual sat waiting for one number. But it got me out. The music was loud so didn’t have to make conversation. Which I was grateful for. I’m not being Lazy but some times I’m just happy to sit and chill. Xx

1922

@Poppet1973
I’m not too bad. Went out last night. Was ok. Loud music so didn’t have to force conversation. Was going to do stuff today but thought no. So I’m going to sit and watch a film. I feel ABIT anxious for some reason. Don’t know why. So not going to get myself upset. Xx

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1923

As long as you had funx

1924

@Poppet1973
Glad you’ve got yourself outside. It’ll do you good. Xx

1925

I feel a lot better.still lost and in a rut xx

1926

I have gotvto get out of this rut.my maria would not want md to be like this .xx

1927

@Diggerdave
I’m glad you’re feeling better. If you feeling a rut have you thought of doing something to occupy yourself ABIT? Maybe joining a group or volunteering for something. Just maybe a few hours per week get you out and break up the monotony. X

1928

I remember at the start of British Summer Time my Beloved would have all the clocks changed before I got up. His job. Another emotional trigger

1929

I am thinking of doing something. Not sure what yet .my life was with maria. And that is that i will sort something out. Xxx

1930

All my clocks change on there own .my phone.my laptop.and my tablet all change on there own. Xx

1931

Thank you, I don’t know what is wrong with me, just cant seem to shake it off.
Hope you are ok today xxx

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1932

@Pooka1968
Yes my paused to do that as well. The thing is he was so tall I cant reach them so got to get step ladders out. He’d be laughing at me now. Bless him. Xx

1933

Ive come back in now, there’s grey clouds in the sky and looks like its going to rain, it’s getting windy xxx

1934

Still nice and sunny here. Bit nippy but nice x

1935

@Diggerdave
Yes I’ve been thinking of doing something. Im looking at volunteering as well. Plus I was debating wether to try a walking group. Something to do at the weekend plus it will get me out and about and hopefully fitter and healthier. X

1936

I always reminded Mark to change the locks, the batteries in them have gone and haven’t changed them in months, just don’t see the point

1937

Clocks it should say

1938

My bereavement counsellor has asked me to join her in September to do a glow walk xx

1939

@Tenpin i am looking at something a widowers widow group .something like that

1940

Someone on here told me about jolly dollys, its a widow group that goes out for day trips x