I only lost my mum in November and I live quite far away from where she is buried but my dad visits every week, and my next door neighbour lost her husband 30 years ago and I believe she still visits him once or twice a week. I think you should go as often as you like, particularly if it’s nearby and you find it comforting.
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Its been 15 months now since i lost my darling wife i have a 40 mile round trip sometimes by car sometimes with my bus pass i visit once a week you must do what feels right for you god bless you all aand happy new year xx
my mum passed just over 2 months ago and i lost my dad around 13. to be honest when my dad died, around that age I was quite scared going to the cemetary for some reason and mum said not to go and now that mum is there in that same cemetary. since my mum died quite sudden like dad its all sort hitting me at once and I visit both graves when i go. The feeling of grief has been quite overwhelming since mum had passed. i’ve been going quite often, because my home doesnt feel like a home anymore and atleast when im at her grave, i get some sort comfort. its bittersweet feeling when i see her grave, as it loss i’ll never get over with if I’m being honest. do what makes you feel better