I’ve just got back from a walk as well. Only 3 miles, but nice to walk across the fields and round the lake.
I am sweating, or as the posh say, perspiring a bit, so now need a shower.
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It took me around 3 hours from Northants, but was a nice drive.
It is beautiful as is Scotland. If you want to go, then do it before it’s too late for you.
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That sounds very thoughtful Ned. I have friends in County Wicklow near Baltinglass.
I am sure the family will honour Sally and all she means to you and them.
Kate
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ahaha, your funny John!
I will think of what chapters and where to start. I know I want something inspiring.
I read a little bit of Helen Keller I love her character and her story is inspiring to me. She inspired me thats why I love working with children with additional needs because I believe in their potential.
Oh my God, 1988? i was born 1983!
Mind you, here Im listening to soundtrack of Grease movie. My husband likes all these songs. So Im dancing away then painting the pipe!
I did not like statistics when I was in uni even now.
Did you manage to get into zoom today?
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Love01,
Its good hear your managing a little bit in your house. Thats something, small steps better than nothing at all. Each day you will get stronger it might seem obvious but you will. We are here for you.
Be kind to yourself, you are important in this journey. Messaged us here, we are here for you.
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I will add that to my list!
I better live longer as the list is getting longer!
Maybe doing taichi and green tea would help with longevity, like japanese and chinese!
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You make me feel quite elderly
So sorry to say, but you were so young to lose your partner. Condolences 
The zoom call is 7.30 this evening
Do i need to download zoom on my phone john
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Taichi ok, but green tea??? 
Green tea is disgusting
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I just put the link Karen sent out into Safari on my MacBook and it did download zoom.
Try the link on your phone now. It’ll say the meeting hasn’t started, but you could save a bit of time
I agree, but we’re all different
I know John, I dont know if I can love again. Its not the same Ive tried but its not the same. I cant help comparing, I miss my husband all the time. But no one knows what the future is… so…
For now, I am enjoying what I have. For you guys, indeed are so lucky to have relationships for 30+years. Thats not so common these days with divorces and all that.
Age is just a number! After doing my workout I feel in 20s again! haha
I need to be fit for me to be able to the activities in my list. That inspire me…I did 15push ups today, I started 6 so I need to get back to 21over as thats what i was capable of.
I like herbal tea the scent is quite relaxing for me.
What do you like Daisy?
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Coffee haha
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I have not heard from Karen yet🥺.
Yes, I was 35 when I lost keith. Now Im 42, it does not seem that long. My kids have grown since then. Supporting them was the hardest as I was dealing with their sufferings and almost neglected myself. So I have to stay standing although it was not that easy. They saw me when I was the lowest point I guess we help each other cope. We truly understand the ‘mental health’ of each other.
Hopefully, Karen replies.
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I love milky coffee in the morning…my day is not complete without coffee!
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I have a pod machine its lattee all the way for me
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I am trying but everything is so bloody hard i am struggling big time i know i am posting on this but not everyone is chatting it looks like others are talking about things between them selfs i have been ignored for what i do t know
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Folk were just being a bit lighthearted, Gary.
When Ian died, I tried going to a ‘bereavement cafe’, which is held a few miles away from me. I thought it would be good for me in that people would talk about how they coped with their loss.
I went twice. The people were really nice, men and women much the same age as myself, but it seemed like they talked about everything other than their losses. I think they’d lost their partners some years before and weren’t feeling raw like I was. Ian had died just 3 weeks before.
I might go back in the future, but just now I feel that this community is the best place for me. We really do understand how each other feels, and if we can bring a bit of lightheartedness into the conversation, then it shows we have a wee bit of hope for the future.
Anne x
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Love01, sorry you feel this way.
I wish I could offer you support.
I understand Love01, its so hard right now for you I hope things will get easier. Do take care of yourself.
I sometimes phone Samaritan as they are always available to speak to. Specially at night when I could not sleep and struggle with my thoughts. Little things help with me.
Does Sue Ryder have other support you can call perhaps?
Sorry, we did not mean to ignore you. Just got carried away chatting to each other. Looking back to our old memories and the things that help me get through things during difficult times.
Have you managed to phone your GP? Its really hard to know whats the best in grieving. But atleast you are reaching out here in the chat. You are doing the best you can Love01 coping with your loss.
i apologised if I am insensitive in my chats with others. I felt I found a community I can speak about my loss and how I am now. It is still hard at times.
I understand too that you are in such pain sharing I hope helps even a little. Thank you for sharing Love01. Hope you managed to have something for your tea.
Look after yourself. Take care.
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