I am so sorry Cloudysky - it all seems so unfair but especially for you. I can understand how you must think your husband will walk through the door. It’s all the routine things which become different because you are only shopping for one and going for all the things my other half loved. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Thanks Rose25. It is horrible for everyone here. It somehow seems worse than it did a month ago. Not moved any of his things yet, still have the ashes. Guess that’s next, but all in my own time xxx I hate mornings most of all. My mum lost my dad 17 years ago, took her out to lunch today . It has knocked her back what happened to me. so I try to take care of her. Am lucky that I also have 3 lovely sisters nearby although they don’t really understand the loss, they do their best to help me. I hope you have some support too xx
I can understand why it makes you annoyed. Try to see this as someone not knowing what to say and trying to show they care. I always answer honestly and find that quite often that gives someone an opening to say something more helpful. The thing that makes me cross is, “What happened?” Or, “How did he die?”