Hi
I was just wondering as I saw you mentioned Southampton, if you had had chance to access the services at the Maggie’s centre at Southampton?
They are/would be invaluable in giving support to your husband, child and also yourself as and when needed. They have cancer specialists there, psychologists and a number of other people who you can reach out too. They also have benefits advisors to let you know what may be available to you to help out, and if it hasn’t already been done or competed a DS1500 should have been sent off to the DWP as this provides help to terminal patients, his oncologist would complete this for you.
A close friend of mind is centre head at Maggies in Newcastle where I live snd the centre is a lifeline for many people dealing with cancer and the help the families as well as the patients. Even if you just need a chat they will be there xxx