Hi my husband died 10 weeks today his daughter my bonus daughter is getting married this weekend I’m dreading it he was only 67 I’m 54 feel so lost
Hello @Ditto1987, I am very sorry for the death of your husband. How you are feeling is completely understandable and you are not alone.
I’m glad that you’ve been able to share here and I hope that you find the community a good source of support. Everyone here has experienced the loss of a loved one and will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help you right now.
Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
Take care - keep reaching out,
Hi sorry your struggling .Hope the wedding goes ok and you enjoy it has much has possible .xxx
@Ditto1987 sorry for your loss. My husband was also 67 and I am 56. We were married nearly 35 years. I hope the wedding goes ok and you can have your husband in your heart with you throughout the day.
Thank you all so much for your lovely replies x
@Ditto1987 hope the wedding goes as well as it can.
Please let us know.
Maybe have an “escape route” when you feel you’ve had enough.