Hi my husband died 10 weeks today his daughter my bonus daughter is getting married this weekend I’m dreading it he was only 67 I’m 54 feel so lost


Hello @Ditto1987, I am very sorry for the death of your husband. How you are feeling is completely understandable and you are not alone.

I’m glad that you’ve been able to share here and I hope that you find the community a good source of support. Everyone here has experienced the loss of a loved one and will understand some of what you are going through.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help you right now.

Take care - keep reaching out,


Hi sorry your struggling .Hope the wedding goes ok and you enjoy it has much has possible .xxx

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@Ditto1987 sorry for your loss. My husband was also 67 and I am 56. We were married nearly 35 years. I hope the wedding goes ok and you can have your husband in your heart with you throughout the day.

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Thank you all so much for your lovely replies x

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@Ditto1987 hope the wedding goes as well as it can.

Please let us know.

Maybe have an “escape route” when you feel you’ve had enough.