I’m going to cut it as short as I possibly can in the Hope’s of getting some support.
I lost my big brother in july, he practically raised me along side my dad, my dad had a host of heart problems when I was a baby and ended up having a heart transplant. My bro stepped up and looked after us while our dad was in and out of hospital, and eventually when my dad passed away when I was almost 15, he had me and my other siblings move in with him and his own family.
He was like a second dad to me for many years, he got cancer and died in July and I just dont know how to function anymore. I just keep seeing his poorly face in my head every day, I miss him terribly. I miss our chats about dad and all the jokes he used to tell. I miss it all
I have 2 kids I put a brave face on for, but each day gets harder. I dont feel supported by anyone, I just want to cry all the time and I’m holding it in because I’m NEVER without my kids, I can barely function and it takes me hours after getting up to do anything because I have no motivation . People stopped asking how I am after a few days of his death and its tearing me up that I support everyone with everything and I dont get any back. I am on the verge of telling people how angry I am because they just stopped caring while I carried on grieving alone in silence. Nobody understands. I have to wait till my family is asleep before I let myself cry. I cry for my dad and my brother at once, dad has been gone 21 years now but since my brother passed away it feels so raw again . I dont know what to do, I want to be the fun mum i used to be but I just dont know how to function anymore. Please help me xxx