I lost my partner on Friday 25 of Nov, it was heart related, I’m completely lost, I have a houseful of people but feel very alone. I don’t know how I will carry on without him. My heart is broken completely
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I joined this group a few weeks back and it’s reassuring to read and talk to people who have lost loved ones . No body can understand the pain until it happens to you. Always reach out and put down your feelings , expressing it sometimes helps .
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@MemberD72. I’m so dreadfully sorry for your loss. I lost my husband of 37 years just three weeks ago. I and everybody on here knows exactly how you feel and shares your pain. Our lives have all been torn apart by what’s happened. The early days after my loss are a blur to me and I can’t remember most of them. Please keep posting on here. Tell us how you are feeling. Get it off your chest and wallow in it for as long as you need to. We are all here for you. Big cuddle for you xx.
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Thank you so much, I know friends and family mean well but I can’t explain to them how I’m feeling, that’s why I’ve found myself here. I’m sorry for your loss, xxxx
I don’t even know where to begin xx
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I am so sorry for your loss.
No one really knows where to being! But you’ve made a start by joining this group.
You don’t have to explain your feelings, tell them that you just can’t.
I’m one year, one month and one day into my journey and I still can’t really explain my feelings.
It’s like nothing you’ve ever felt before, so how are you even expected to try to explain.
Like you’re in a void, trapped in the spin cycle of a washing mashing machine, on an emotional rollercoaster that you can’t get off of, are some of the analogies.
It’s all very different and very new for you.
You can have a good rant and spout off if you want. No one will judge. I hope you find some comfort and support from the group.
Take care of yourself
Peace, love and light to you X
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Thank you so much, people are so kind … just can’t explain how I feel. It’s like you want the world to stop so you can get off and be anywhere else but here.
I’m so sorry for your loss xxx
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I have just lost my partnermy heart is aching I’m just walking around in a mess my heart is breaking for my children the younger ones don’t understand I’m just broken xx
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@Vikki1234
Im so sorry for your loss, this is the worst pain imaginable, im 5 weeks in and feel like my life is on a loop of waking and existing through yet another pain filled day.
Sending love and hugs
Xxx
@MemberD72
Sending you my love and support. I know nothing can make your dreadful loss easier but you are among people who at lest ‘get it’ more here.
I lost my darling husband suddenly in April. I certainly went round in total disbelief for a long time afterwards. The belief started a bit when I saw him in his coffin but that is not for everyone.
You can only do whatever feels right for you on any given day but don’t expect too much of yourself. Just take each moment of each day at a time and survive that moment, then the next.
Hugs xxx
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@KarenF
So sorry for your terrible loss.
Its the strangest feeling knowing i am now without him forever. Its like ground hog day, the same thing played over and over on a loop.
Thank you for your kindness.
Sending love and hugs
Xxx
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