I feel lost

Hi all.
I feel lost without my mum. Mums bring continuity love and guidance they are a constant and they never let you down they are there for you when your world falls apart they wipe tears away and tell you everything is going to be okay and you listen to your mum because she’s wise
I miss that my mum at the end of the phone or at home waiting when you need her the most. What I wouldn’t give right now for my mum to be waiting for me


Hello Steven,

I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling at this time. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your mum. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that might be helpful.

I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.

Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.

Take care,


Hi Steven,
so sorry for the loss of your of your mum, I lost my nan 6 months ago and she was like a mum to me, we would speak everyday about everything. it was suggested to me that i write a journal everyday nothing major just a page of what i would normally talk to her about, i found this so helpful as i feel like i have a gaping hole in my heart.
im having bereavement councilling which really helps i tried 3 weeks after my nan passing but was too soon.

always here to chat, your not alone

lots of love
chelle x

Hi Chellle. I’m so sorry for your loss.
I didn’t just lose mg mum I lost my man to at age 16 Years I watched in horror as my Nan suffered Alzheimer’s it was so cruel to my Nan go through that. There is no way she deserved to suffer way she did. She would ask me where is her daughter my mum and my dad and I couldn’t tell her my mum was still alive. That would be so cruel
After I lost my mum I lost my partners mum who I was very close to she was like a mum to me I though the world of her and what makes it worse was she passsd away 5 months after I lost my mum. It’s tripod grief.
As for counselling I tried it but it didn’t help me.
Best wishes Steve

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