Sad2, yes your poem speaks for so many of us and yes, our loved ones always life on in us, part of them in us. Take care and look after yourself. Once again many thanks xx
Thank you.
Sitting here again thinking and crying. it just breaks my heart because I miss Alan so much. Just keep asking myself WHY did he have to leave me. What have I done to deserve this pain?
We had so many more good and happy days to look forward to. Now nothing.
We are all suffering here I know, and it’s not getting any easier. Life will never be the same. x
Your poem is beautiful and summarises everything I feel in choosing the site to spread his ashes. A beautiful beach on the Northumberland coast so that whatever day I visit I hope to feel my husband is with me until I am able to join him.
I have similar questions and feelings. I often feel as if he has abandoned me. Plans and trips will never be achieved. Wedding anniversary tomorrow - 39 years. When we got married we had nothing but each other and that was all that mattered. Six months on and I continue to struggle without him.
Hi
A friend sent this poem to me and I read it out when we scattered Brian’s ashes in the grave of his beloved grandparents. I changed the words to seem as if he was saying them to me. I added another line which was.
“Turn around and I am behind you.”
I always look behind me when I go to the grave.