I just want him back

Its been 6 weeks since my husband passed away and today his car is being returned it is just sitting there.I feel so lonely even though ive got an amazing family .today we would be doing a midweek clean of the house together and going shopping im absolutely broken

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Julieann69
Small steps forward i know its hard when you have routines. I’ve been almost 5 months since i lost my wife to pancreatic cancer that had spread to her liver she passed very quickly within two months. My sister died four days before her collapsed at my wifes hospital bed with a brain bleed.
I’ve found this site very helpful there’s many of us going through the same hurts. When ever your feeling down come on here they’ll be someone to share it with
I know it did me.
Take care it’s good to talk. :pray::heart:

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So sorry for your loss, its been nearly 3 months since I lost my beloved husband to cancer.
I miss him everyday, nothing is the same without him and im struggling to go on.
You are not alone

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To Silverfox
I cant begin to think of the deaths of your wife and sister.
And to open up to others in a time when your grieving much more than you should be your a credit to your wife and sister to be able to offer kind words to others .

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Yanko
The first few months were a real nightmare
I came on here and being able to offload the hurt with others going through the same kind of grief helped.
And trying to give any words of comfort to others.
Take care :broken_heart::pray:

7 weeks since my husband passed suddenly from a heart attack .this friday we get to celebrate his life .its been hard because the pathologist wanted Barts to have tissue samples due to the possibility of the heart disease and we gave 4 children .
How am i going to get through this he was my world

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Dear Julieann
I know its so hard but sumon the strength from your living husband ask him to be by your side to help you get through this traumatic time . Even have a little picture of him either in your hand or in your pocket so you feel him close imagine him laughing at you when you cant hold back the tears i know this sounds strange but it was a great comfort to me as hard as it is know that he is always with you and no one on this earth will ever take the good times and the love you both had for each away from you as long as you live. Take care i feel your pain hopefully this site will help us to maybe just maybe get our lives back on track .

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@Julieann69 my husband’s funeral was 3 weeks ago. You will get through it, it won’t be easy but you will, let the tears flow but hopefully you will surrounded by people who love you both, take care x

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Julieann
Im so sorry in my last post it was meant to say from your loving husband bloody predictive texts sorry

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