I feeling down at the moment I’ve lost my dad and brother 5 weeks apart from each other last year I am find very difficult to coupe with it my mum and sisters are not helping nor my husband I am find it difficult on my own my heart torn apart from it sometimes I blame myself my brother death not seen him a lot I didn’t get told till three day later I never got to stay good by until I see him in the chapel of rest it didn’t feel the same we bother was so close year apart when we was born. My dad it was different I never went to see him because he didn’t want me to but it was hard to let go it basically shock me when I lost both of them last year I find difficult to speak to people how I feel even my husband because sometime my husband doesn’t listen to me he doesn’t know how I feel because he never asked no one I find it to difficult to tell anyone about it it hurt me too much to speak about it
Hi, i am sorry for both your losses.
Mine is slightly different i lost my dad on Christmas day 2024. Then i lost my wife on the 25th of January. Which to be honest has knocked the crap out of me.
My gp got in touch with the local hospice and i have been seeing their councillor for about 8 weeks, which has helped me. A safe place to talk about everything, even things you can’t tell family or friends for fear of upsetting them. So it might be better to have a word with your gp.
Take care
But I am struggling a lot to cope with it all I think I got more to it I cannot speak to anyone about it because every time I stay it I get upset and go in to a bad mood over it I am not getting no help with my family at all I just find it differeculr to cope
Hi, i do think you need to look into counselling. It’s hard ,my family and friends live over a 100 miles away and i have not seen them since my wife’s funeral in February. I have/am struggling. I wish i could say the right words to help you, just know you are not alone. If you need to rant or ramble use this website, we unfortunately understand. Please take care.
I am just find hard to deal with when I having got my family to support me in anyway but I am stubborn person to deal with aswell but sometime I keep thinking I am going to lose it my brother was my soul mate I can tell him everythink even if I had a problem but now I cannot and I never had a funeral for him he had direct cremation where no one can stay good bye I am heartbroken sometime I don’t know what to dd
But it was diffiernt with my dad he had a funeral so I can stay good bye but I fell guilty in myself sometimes
I am afraid that with grief,you get all emotions and not the good ones. I am reading it’s ok that you’re not ok by Megan Devine at the moment. Everybody’s path is different as we are all different.
I just hope you get someone to talk too. I know families can be frustrating and people don’t know how to say the right thing. I got invited to a wedding at my wife’s wake. I thing you could try is a grief journal or right your brother a letter,it might help.