I lost my Aunt on 3 September 2023 following a massive stroke 6 days before. She wasn’t just my Aunt, she was my Godmother, my best friend and I was her carer. Losing her has left a huge hole in my life, my days are empty and the procrastination is off the scale! I can’t find the energy or the enthusiasm to do anything. Apart from my wonderful and supportive husband, for whom I am eternally thankful, nobody seems to care. Some days I just wish I wasn’t here! To top it all, we can’t move forward and sort out her clothes for charity etc because my fellow executor won’t let us! Every time I go to Aunty’s house to open/shut curtains and check everything is okay, it’s a constant reminder of what I’ve lost! I’m broken!
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So sorry for your loss! Sending you hugs, there are a lot if people here who understand and have felt or feel the same way. Lost my dad and don’t know what to do with myself and the hole he left in my life.
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Thank you. I’m sorry for your loss too. I lost both my parents many years ago, it’s not easy to cope with at all. My thoughts are with you, big hugs xx
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Thank you. 
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