I lost my wife last September. And i am totally lost

Losing a partner
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Hiya first time on here i losg my wife in January totally lost
With out her

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Hello
How awful, I lost my husband unexpectedly in January , I understand how painful it is, there are lots of us in the same position, if you need to talk.
I am suffering immensely, so I understand your pain.
Sending my love to you xx

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Thanks a lot it is horrible. Sorry for your loss xx

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Sorry forgot to say if you wanna talk i am here xx

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I lost my beloved husband on 23rd November 2024 to cancer, I understand how you feel, I miss him everyday, after 22 years its just me I feel like half of me is missing. Im just existing day to day waiting to be with him again

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I forgot to say if you wanna talk texted i am a here. Xx

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Sorry for your loss .i know what you are going through.

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Thank you, Just spill your heart out, I do. It helps me to know that there are others who know exactly how I am feeling, which is, to be honest, absolutely dreadful, I cry constantly, I love my husband so much and miss him, I just wish he was still with me xx

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Yes that is how i am .talk to her every nite .i am going to a brevement council soon see if that helps x

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So sorry for your loss. I’m 9 weeks into this awful journey, lost my husband at the end of December. Everyone on here knows how you feel so message whenever you need to. Take one day at a time and take care of yourself

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Thank you xx

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Thanks .it is horrible it is like someone has ripped your heart out .sorry for your loss. Xx

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We were together since we were 15, I’ve never been an adult without him, miss him so much. He was only 56 and we should have had a lot more years together. Sending love to everyone hurting at the moment x

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Sending you my love xx

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Sorry for the loss.such a young man ,we were married for 38 years.a life time .totally lost with her .xxx

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Hi Diggerdave
Lost my wife in January too, so know how you are feeling. It feels like i am in survival mode only at the moment.
Feeling lost, empty and devastated myself too. Tears are never far away. I try to remember the good times, but the bad memories keep creeping back in. It will be 2 months tomorrow since i lost her, and i know i CAN live without her, it’s just that I don’t WANT to live without her.
Take care, be kind to yourself and let the emotions out, don’t lock them away somewhere.

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Hi . I lost my husband to cancer in August 2024, diagnosed in June 2024 just so sudden and certainly not expected. I joined a few days ago. . I get bereavement counselling,
But the emptiness is awfull we married 3 years ago ( both had lost partners).
This being my second bereavement my first husband was killed in 2009 as the result of a road accident when driving his lorry I was widowed at 48.
But wth this bereavement totally different I watched Jim for 8 weeks and nothing could be done as the cancer was to advanced. I am sorry for your loss
Life is so cruel it’s just finding how to get through each day.

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It is very hard.just takes time too heal.just take care of yourself there are people on here who knoiw what you are going through willing to help and give advice.x

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@Beachwalks I’m so sorry, what a terribly traumatic time you’ve had. I’m not sure I have a lot of advice (only been 9 weeks for me) but please take care of yourself and reach out on here whenever you need to x

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Oh christ how the hell have you managed 2 times bloody hell my heart goes out to you .so so sorry for your losses .xxx.i have just sorted my bereavement council. Even after the first meeting it was a help. Xx

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