I lost my mom four years ago and an aunt that I was close to in 2024. My childhood home was sold in order to pay gor my mother’s care and I haven’t really dealt with any of it. My mom held everything together and without her my siblings and I no longer speak. It sounds childish, it’s not something that I wanted but something that my three older siblings chose.
My Aunt that I was close to was a lot like my mom and she and I would sit and talk about my mom. Then she passed.
I miss my childhood home. No one else cared that the house had to be sold, I have nightmares about being in the house, and I find myself sorrowful over some stranger living there.
I figure I’m grieving the loss of my siblings as well because we don’t speak but that’s another story.
I’m Alex, and I just wanted to reach out and say how truly sorry I am that you’re going through so much. Experiencing multiple losses can feel incredibly heavy, and it’s completely understandable if you’re finding it hard to cope right now. Please know that you’re not alone in feeling this way.
Many people in our community have faced more than one bereavement, and while every experience is unique, there can be comfort in hearing from others who understand the exhaustion that can come with grieving more than one person. You might find it helpful to read through some of their posts here.
This community is here for you - whether you want to talk, ask questions, or simply be heard. You are not alone.
