I’ve been ok for weeks when I say ok I mean I’m getting by. But for the past few days it’s hitting me like a brick again. My life again feels so useless and I’m asking questions and getting angry, I’ve been asking the angels for advice and for help. Been 12 weeks ago now and I miss her so very much tears are streaming down my face as I am typing this. I no I need help but who do I turn to, it’s always £s to speak to somebody, don’t people help anymore god forbid but it is going to happen to them at some point in the future. Grief is something that should not be taken lightly. Any advice please. 
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Hi David13
I’m sorry to hear things feel so hard right now. I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to say thank you for so bravely sharing this with us.
Keep reaching out, Naoise
Hi David13,
Have you spoken to your gp. Mine got me into counselling through a local hospice. That lasted about 9 sessions . I now go to a bereavement coffee morning, which helps talking to people who are going through the same pain.
I know its not for everyone, and it took me opening up after 3 vists to feel part of the group . I was ready to stop going. Or feel free to rant or ramble on here, i am afraid we all know what you are going through. Take care
Hi David my heart bleeds for you. My wife is on end of life care and is days maybe hours away from the end. I have been desperate but a number of people on this site have been so amazing and compassionate. I am so scared of what life will be without my fantastic wife but this community is a god send. I was also out in touch with humming bird for the first time today and they call you and talk to you . They are online but speak to you. I wondered if there are any local groups in this community that would be interested in meeting up for a coffee( Northamptonshire ) or chat or even meet up online for a chat . Grieving at the eminent loss of the love of my life or the loss is and will be challenging so I too like all of us ( I think) could do with such connectivity. We are all with you.
Hi Nedth. I cannot even contemplate how you are feeling but my heart goes out to you. My day has got a little better. I have started using angel cards and I get some comfort from them with the answer I get daily. I would gladly talk to you. Prayer to you
Hey… I’m going through hell after the anniversary of my brother’s death… But I have my Loki (god of mischief) and my kids keeping me going. 3 days ago was the anniversary of my brother’s death and he faught in Iraq and twice in Afghanistan… Ready for another tour of Afghanistan and dies in an accidental drowning accident. Crazy thing is. He was meant to be based in England on that date. His commander let him leave the country and my mum has done nothing. I’m furious but she doesn’t want me to act on it so I cry myself to sleep a lot cause he made me guarantor. But I respect my mum. It is hell
Ok so this is the very first day I’ve used this app and I already think it’s great because I just figured out how to reply after a while attempting 
anyways… Can totally feel your pain and loneliness cause I have it all the time too. But this chat shows you aren’t alone… We are all in this together. I guess it’s figuring out how to help eachother as we are all different. Sending you love 
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