I miss who I was

[Sarlyn]

This resonated with me

[Nel]

So true and exactly how I feel x

[Rammie]

Absolutely. Simon was my rock. Always there whenever I needed him. Even if I didn’t realise I did. He was a quiet, smart, unassuming man. Whose gentle presence was enough. I keep asking him to take me with him.

[Cathphil]

That’s beautiful and explains so much of how I feel.
I miss the old me so much, and I don’t even like the new me very much.
Thank you for sharing it​:heart:

[Kingfisher]

So true Sarlyn, it sums up how many of us feel.
Thank you for posting it.
Love Jenny

[Doughtyj]

Sums up exactly how I now feel
Thank you for posting @Sarlyn

[Freefaller]

I miss the old me too ’ i wonder will she ever return? I just feel like an empty shell.

[Tiffany]

Spot on. I miss who I was as well as missing my oh so much.

[Solost]

Wow @Sarlyn, that really hits the nail on the head. I hate this new “me”, if I can call it a “me”!
I don’t know who or what I have become now😕. I don’t even feel human at times,it’s so scary.

[SHEWITCH]

That is just how i feel . I don’t know who I am anymore . Now i have a tag of being a widow ,which i hate

[Derek2]

I feel exactly the same.I miss Tanni so much.l will never be the same again.

[Cathphil]

So understand how you all feel…

And that little word ‘I’ … How I hate that word so much…try to avoid using it, either say ‘we’ including our two dogs…or just avoid it altogether.

It is comforting to know others have the same/ very similar feelings and thoughts.

Big hugs everyone

[Carl2242]

Great writing
It is me I am nothing without the love of my life Frances. She was my whole life. The new me hates that I have not gone to her, the new me will never break out of my shell without her

[NMcC1]

This is exactly how I feel too. Miss my husband so much.

[Rammie]

@NMcC1 Bless you. Thinking of you. Such a shock to the system when it happens and it’s the small things that can make you miss them most. Like saying good morning x