This is my first post.
I lost my mum last year to cancer. She was taken into hospital and diagnosed with stage 4 … then to hospice care and for her final couple of months she was isolated in a care home without her family due to Covid . I feel so angry that firstly I missed all the signs that she was so unwell and that she hid how poorly she was probably through fear. Could I have changed things for her? The answer is I will never know!
I am just now angry that I couldn’t spend quality time with her in her final days and reassure her.
I know I’m not alone but I don’t know anyone who has gone through this.