Hi everyone im Jo,
My beautiful mum died 18 months ago aged 68 from lung cancer, I’m so angry and I don’t know how to deal with it. Because of covid we couldn’t see her much , only on the doorstep. I’m angry at life , she was diagnosed in November 2020 , they said she had a year, she lasted 6 months!!
Any help on how to deal with this emotion would be great, thanks Jo
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I am so sorry. A terrible diagnosis like that brings shock and eventually anger. Covid and all the restrictions just made everything much much harder.
Hi Jo so sorry for your loss you will be angry at life it’s a normal emotion I’m still angry love I lost my youngest daughter in January this year she had breast Cancer which turned very quickly to stage 4 liver cancer and it ravaged her little body she fought till the end she was 25 yrs old she never drank. Smoked she ate healthy and went to the gym she was a devoted mum to her little man it’s so unfair. Life is very cruel and yes I’m very angry but I try and carry on the best way I can but it’s so hard and a struggle to plod on each day just try and take one day at a time and come on here and pour your heart out these people on here are so lovely and supportive and understanding we are all on here to help each other take care. Shellyanne XX
I am so so sorry, I really don’t know how you are dealing with that, its way worse than my situation, you should NEVER outlive your child, lots of love sweetie xxxx
Hi Jo everyone’s situation is heartbreaking no matter who it is or how long ago they passed my daughter Katie would be 36 this Xmas but I remember giving birth to her as if it was yesterday and she was buried new yrs eve but I came in time to accept that she was with my mum n nan. But when I lost Leah it opens up heartbreaking wound s and I struggle every day someday s I wish I wouldn’t wake up but I try n go on the best I can. And I think of my other daughter s and grandkids I think that keeps me going xxshellyanne