That your family members don’t want to be public with their grief I struggled Terribly as they don’t want me to share with others how I feel as other people wouldn’t understand, I don’t know if it’s actually made me worse as I get their point you don’t want to be reminded in your Fb memories how much pain you was in but now I don’t speak with people at all about it and i suffer in silence about it a lot as a result please advise
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Hi tcy , don’t keep anything to your self it will make you feel poorly , I bottled everything up for 12 months then ended up having a break down . maria
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Please don’t suffer in silence grief is a real thing you need to be open about how you feel if other family members do not talk about your loss perhaps they are in denial or feel emotional withdrawn, i couldn’t talk about my wife for weeks as it was such a traumatic time,
But now everyone accepts that conversation has and can help sometimes you need to remember all the memories and cherish them 
as shutting out the sadness is not the answer
Sending you 
hugs
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