I've changed

I’m new here so hello to you all.
I lost my Mam just over a year ago & I’m struggling. At the same time as losing her my husband has become disabled. He can’t walk or so anything much for himself and I have given up my job to care for him. The life we had planned has now gone. I’ve no family or friends nearby and I’m feeling very low. I don’t feel like I have anything of my previous life left. I miss my mum so much. She would have been the one I talked to.
All the things I used to love doing are now meaningless. I feel I’ve changed as a person, I used to like who I was,now I’m not so keen. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Just needed an ear


I’m so sorry to hear what you are going through. Life can be so cruel. Yes, I Found that friends kind of disappeared after I lost mum. It feels very lonely. Like you say, there is no advice only to take one day at a time and grab any help that is offered. Thank you for replying, it’s nice to hear from someone who understands what you are going through. Take care of yourself, your husband & kids.

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