By myself lonely things terrible daughter doesn’t want to know me because the will wife’s friends turned on me because I asked questions on the person but flowers on my wife’s grave valentines i but 48 red roeses 12 hours later 12 taken off they went mad about question them they said lot bad things in a group chat they didn’t think I could still see
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Hi. Sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences.
My hubby passed away 3 months today.
Take a deep breath. Worry about yourself. Grief is a s××××e thing to go through. It brings up lots of different emotions in different people.
You have your grief to deal with. Give yourself time and space. You have memories of your time together. Nobody, no matter what they do or try to do, will never be able to take them.
Baby steps. One day at a time.
I’ve never understood why weddings and the passing of someone brings out the worst in people.
If you want to chat, you can message me. Take care
Hi thanks for your message my wife was 55 so hard to understand why my wife kept my self busy today been for long walk with my dog cut my grass made Sunday dinner hope your days ok thanks lot Neil
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Hi Neil. My day not too bad. Went out with a friend. Got some paint samples and wallpaper samples. Going to decorate my bedroom. My hubby was 64 when he passed away. I’m 57. I thought we had loads of years left together to enjoy.
Now I’m remembering the things we were going to do, so I’m going to start doing some of them i.e the decorating.
I’m going on a coach trip in May with 3 friends. We going to Scotland.
It’s good to keep busy. I’m sure your wife is smiling down on you, telling you to get out and enjoy the fresh air. Enjoy the rest of your day. Mags
Thanks I will got football on I’m thinking painting my kitchen I’m going Bowness end may couple nights
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Good. I hope you enjoy it. If I enjoy this coach trip, think I might book another one. What colour you going to do your kitchen.
I’m thinking of going bold in my bedroom, and going yellow.
Living room is going to be duck egg blue. Not sure about the hallway yet. Who’s playing - football.
Not sure yet about the colour might get my sister in law to help out Liverpool and Chelsea the football match we decorated upstairs last year and new bathroom just before Jan passed away
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Hope you enjoy the match. I’ve got the whole flat to decorate
Have fun then thanks for chatting 
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Enjoyed the chat. Going to sit and look at paint for the other rooms