So my husband has been gone nearly three years now, tomorrow would be our tenth wedding anniversary ( my third marriage, his second) . We were together much longer than the ten years, I miss him more than I can say.
But tomorrow I will cook what was his favorite meal ( night breakfast)
And I will remember all the good times and laughter we shared and hope that he is somewhere watching and smiling with me,
What a wonderful thing to do and I am sure he will be looking down and wishing he could join you for an anniversary meal.
It is so very sad and heartbreaking but itβs good you can remember the good times and hopefully have a big smile along with the inevitable tears.
Look after yourself tomorrow.
Sending love and strength for tomorrow. Xx
So last night I felt really good and positive, and I feel as the day goes on I might gain that back, right now Iβm a mess, asking the same question over and over, why?
Why wasnβt our love enough to get you to stay, why? Did you have to go, I miss you so much
Today will always be a hard day - just try get through the day hour by hour , distract yourself . Try to hold onto those good memories.
Sending love and strength xx
Thank you roni, knowing that people care and share really helps x
Get through tidy in a way that works for you.
Sending a big hug xx
sending you lots of hugs