Jules

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Hi everyone, I hope you are all coping as best you can. It’s been nearly 6 weeks since i lost my Sarah :sleepy: Grief is like a rollercoaster of emotions. I’ve taken a tiny step and gone into her bedroom for the first time since i lost her. I sat on her bed crying and cuddling her pj top that smells of her. I could’nt even go in there at one stage. I’m sending all my love & hugs to you all :pray::heart::kissing_heart:

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Is soo very sad and cruel to lose someone we’ll before their time, I really am sorry for your loss I can’t imagine how you feel.
I hope you are able to find other people on the same journey as yourself and find some form of comfort in talking with them.
You’re still very new in your grief and pain, I do wish you lots of strength through the days/weeks/months and years ahead… I hope you’re not alone and do have a support circle of people there for you. Hugs x

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Dear Jules, I am so sorry that you have lost your daughter. I too lost my precious girl and it is very early days for you. Well done going back into her room. That is a first step and from my experience, baby steps is the way forward. Take care of yourself xxx

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Hi jules you should go on the lost son at 27 foroum .theres so many mums to talk to we all here for you i lost sam april 27th .i would be lost without this site take care love zoe

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Hi Zoe, i’ts my Daughter i lost. Not my son. Thank you for your support. Sending hugs x

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Yes i know jules but if you go on its mums who have lost daughters too .loads people chat on there they are lovely ladys x

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Morning Zoe, oh sorry i did’nt realise. Thank you i will look at it x

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I feel you hunni it took for my other children to go in Leon’s room first and came out crying because they could smell him, it’s soo hard to judge but u have done the first step and allowed it exactly like I have even though its hard so well done to you I am a message away if u would like to talk xxx

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Hi Neen, I go into Sarah’s room everyday. I say hello and kiss her pillow. I find it gives me a lot of comfort talking to her. I have my assessment for bereavement counselling at the end of March. Which i hope will help me to cope. Message me anytime. Sending you s big hug xxx

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Hi Jules,
I hope you are as o.k as you can be, just remember baby steps that’s what a lot of people tell me, I just take one day at a time and if I don’t feel like doing anything I don’t, surround yourself with positive people.
Sending you hugs too and I am just a message away xx

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Hi Neen, I’m ok thanks. I am here if you need a chat xxxx