Hello I’ve just joined and I’m not sure if I am doing anything wrong as I’m not sure if anyone has seen my message
Yes your message has been seen.
Thankyou wasn’t sure if I was doing this right lot’s of love Kirsty xx
Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and keep posting to let us know how you are doing
Hello Hun not good today watching my beautiful mum go through this is horrible I know it’s not pleasant for my mum but she is so strong and determined to get better I keep spurring her on she hasn’t eaten now for about 6 weeks I have no idea how she’s hanging on but I think it’s just pure love for her children and I’m so proud of my mum
Am not sure what is the situation with your mum but are you and her ok . Am thinking of you . I was the same with my mum They starved her in hosp for almost 3 weeks and when i brought her home she ate barely enough to keep a bird alive. It was awful to watch as she could only have fluids due to having a bowel blockage
Here if you need a chat or pm me anytime
Hi Deborah my beautiful mum has terminal lung Cancer was diagnosed in October 2022 x
My mam had lung cancer 4 yrs ago and after having half her lobe removed she survived it. Then she got a bowel blockage approx 10 weeks ago Seems so unfair.
Am here for you anytime you want a chat ok
Stay strong lovely
Ah thankyou sweetie sending lots of love to you xxx
How are you doing Kirsty ?
Hello Hun yer im ok had a little melt down last night sometimes it all gets so much to be honest I’m scared can’t believe that basically soon I’m going to be a orphan I know it sounds daft my parent’s waited a long time to have me my mum was nearly 32 when she had me and my dad was 31 my mum had 4 miscarriages before me I was only Holding on by a thread according to my mum and after she gave birth to me she had a massive hemorrhage and needed blood transfusions and alsorts Just to keep herself alive and not being selfish I feel cheated that I haven’t spent enough time with my mum and dad xx
Aww that rings a bell for me . I was 38 when i had my son. Like your mum I hemorrhaged and had a blood transfusion.
I keep telling myself my mum is with me and perched on my shoulder watching every move I make. That’s the only way I can function at the moment.
I also put a photo of her in the lounge with fairy lights around and a candle and some flowers. It helps me get through each day.
I think its the tiny steps I can make at the moment.
Thinking of you ok and post anytime you want