Yes it’s a frightening thought of 20+ years on your own isn’t it Xx
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Yeh it really is !
You would think someone who is part of the mental health team would have an understanding of people who are grieving I was called in today just for a checkup to see how I’m coping with the loss of my partner and after seeing the doctor I was seen by a male nurse? Not sure if he should be a part of the mental health team after talking about what I’m struggling with the only advice he gave me was that I need to man up apparently it’s only women who struggle with the loss of a partner that visit was not helpful at all
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Oh really … tell that to some of the guys on here then !! You can discharge yourself from their care cant you ? Or cant you ? Or make a complaint ! Take care of yourself xx
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I’ve made a complaint via my GP and she is arranging for me to be changed over to the home team she couldn’t believe it I think it’s the same with men and mental health problems people think it doesn’t affect us thanks for your reply and you take care
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Have you ? Good !! Its all so very hard i know all this is … keep talking on here because people understand more than anybody else, its s terrible world out there , i honestly got to the point where i feel like i cant trust anyone anymore 
xx
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Hello Selinajayne, I am so sorry about the death of your daughter. I haven’t had that experience but your message made me so sad for you.
I have no words that can help you but I just felt I had to say that I am thinking of you and hoping you will find the strength to get through the pain.
With hugs, AnnR
Deb5. How true, I think men suffer more looking at male/ female split in my support group, probably 75% men.
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Yeh course they suffer as much ! It was a very sexost thibg to say ! The wally ! Xx
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