Life is so cruel

Aww, many of you know on here that I lost my beloved husband, soulmate and true love 9 weeks ago. It’s so hard every day and sometimes I feel like I take one step forward and 2 steps back.
Today I’ve had the most terrible news, my eldest sister has been diagnosed with metastatic secondary cancer in the spine, they’re not sure where the primary cancer is, waiting on a ct scan. Doesn’t sound good and adds to my pain. Why is life so bad? :smiling_face_with_tear::broken_heart:


So many people are having one awful thing after another. Its relentless. Sorry to hear about the diagnosis. It’s becoming more common to hear that cancer is spreading to the spine before it’s showing symptoms ( this is what my husband has… primary is kidney) xx

Aww, so sorry @Nori. It’s just so hard for all of us in here. Sending hugs. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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My son stared with secondary cancer in the hip and the spine, no primary showed up on scans or pet scans. When no primary found they all it cup,cancer of unknown primary

Life can be cruel 16 weeks ago my husband died suddenly in Belgium at 52 then my good friends husband got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer a few weeks later. Then my other friend had her dig put to sleep and was diagnosed with fibromyalgia we are a right bunch at the moment.
It all seems to come at once