Thank you Amelie I’m surrounded by my family today and I cannot thank them enough for their kindness x. Stay strong everyone we’re all in this together xx
Warm wishes
Georgina
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I couldn’t light at 7pm but did later, for mum and Ken and other losses
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Oh Ellen3 , a sister is so special I am so sorry for your loss . There is less than a year between me and my sister we are very close always have been. if it was not for her I would have been phoning the Samaritans By now , going through the loss of my son. I have had some complete melt downs where she has practically had to pick me up off the floor and carry me. Was she your big or little sister and we’re you very close ? Have you any other family? Having the funeral and Christmas to deal with is such a big thing and you will still be in such a daze as it’s only a few weeks since your whole world turned upside down. My heart goes out to you. I am glad you have found this site i have found it so helpful hope you do to,Please keep posting and reading posts for support, you should find some help under the heading of “losing a sibling” . Take care jss xx
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Thank you so much for your message.
My sister was 11 months younger than me and thee most important person in my life. The last month has been indescribable. I cannot stop thinking about how hard her last months were. I miss her. I know that will never change.
I am glad that you have a good sister who has supported you with the terrible loss of your son.
All my good wishes to you.
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Sorry to hear about your sis, my younger was taken from us this summer, it was not expected as she was wrongly diagnosed, we are a very close family too and it feels like apart of me has gone with her, still don’t believe it though and have to correct myself when I go to message her, life sometimes just sucks, I wish you well on your new journey x
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Thank you for your kind message. Today I reread all our whats app messages and all the things we said and planned. Take care.
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I lost my beautiful Sharon to cancer…26/11/2019.
Her birthday is on Xmas eve and she would have been 53…
I will definitely light a candle on Christmas Eve at 7pm…
Love to all who have lost loved ones…xx
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I’ve lit my candle tonight for all our loved ones no longer with us 
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I have lit my candle for my dearest husband second Christmas with out him by my side miss him so very much
Thinking of you all tonight hope you find the strength to live this life with out our soul mate it’s a lonely sad journey sending hugs xx
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I lit my candle for my dear mum.
It’s my second Christmas without her and I miss her so much.
Sending love and hugs to everyone out there struggling with this Christmas season.
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This is my 4th Christmas without my sweet younger Sister, both parents are also gone. My Sister and I always shared Christmas and she brought such joy to the day. Now I sit alone and watch my candle flicker in the window, hoping she sees the light and feels the love and warmth I am sending her. Wishing strength and hope to all my fellow grievers.
Xxx 
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I had lit my candle for my loving husband and beautiful mum
This is my 4th year without out him
And the worse year
Just so heartbroken
We can be around so many people but still feel empty inside
Tonight tomorrow the next day we all feel the same
But coming on this site we are sharing our pain
Which in turn gives us the strength to carry on
As best as we can
Take care all
Xx
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