I do not come here as much, Thank God. my loss was nearly a decade now.
time passes swiftly so my advice is live while you can. so very fast we are old grey and death comes. grapple with the hard stuff now. I am middle aged. I was in media and the arts. fun but hardcore. now I have to make very practical choices. I have to live while I can. no more time to dream or do the dream and get it done.
point is many are remarking how time moves faster since the pandemic. all that stuff older people tell us the stuff we do not want to hear? listen and move with it.
anyway I just woke with some truths in my face this morning, reflecting on youth etc. and hope everyone can eventually move past grief to live. the dearly departed also too thought life realities did not apply to them.