Yes I struggle with firms and paperwork too as he did those
Trouble is come back to bite me as make mistakes so disheartening.
My son only does so much gets fed up with it.
My indecision drives son’s crazy and old fashioned ideas like hate risk, new fangled things, scams get awful scam calls. Got power attorney sorted as if can’t then at push could pass important over.
It is bereavement I overload. Some days better than others.
I realise how difficult I am just like my mother was at my age and stage. She used to ignore what I did to help her sometimes. But she did use her own initiative at times. When I look back. She got taken unfair advantage of as well.
Recall someone dumped their old rubbish on her and charged her £100 for it making my job even worse when she died and frustrated. Some bloke used to sit in my dad’s chair watching her TV, eating her food and using her hot water to have a bath. Luckily she told him to leave because she was fed up with it. He had no interest in her at all. Just a taker.
Took unfair advantage I get loneliness. I don’t want someone plonking themselves like that so makes me wary.
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I’ve allocated one part of the wardrobe and a drawer just for all his belongings that I’ve decided to keep, and a special box for the clothes that he wore on his last day - so sad every time I am looking at them.
I have given some to good use as they fit my grandsons perfectly.
I love having his scarf wrapped around my neck every day when I go out and his fleece jacket on me when indoors as if he was always hugging me - sounds crazy but I’m just following my heart 
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Friends and family can only do so much. When there is masses.
I get what everyone is saying how they feel. We all got different strengths and weaknesses. Some good at admin and always did it anyway. If not it is horrible when it seems complex just when can’t concentrate.