Hi guys anyone around now that’s feeling lonely?
13 weeks since I lost my beautiful husband and I’m really struggling today, everyone has plans tonight and I’m alone with my thoughts 
I’m sorry about your loss, losing anyone so close and important is like losing a limb.
There’s also nothing worse than being alone with your thoughts and having events replay in your head all the time! Grief is such a weird and horrible experience.
I’m currently tucked up at home as well!
Hi @ choccy thanks for your reply, I’m sorry for your loss too, weekends are the worst
Yes. So lonely. The agony of loss is terrible. I need him so much. We long for our loved one to be back with us. Evenings are bad for me, though the loneliness can hit at any time.
Hi Lydia, it really is the most horrendous pain, how long ago did you loose your loved one ?
My husband died 19 weeks ago suddenly with no warning, within a few minutes. He’d had a good, week, busy and active. I miss him so, so much.
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So sorry, I hope you have support
It is 20 weeks ago on Sunday that my fit and healthy husband had a sudden cardiac arrest in bed next to me. We had just got back from a few days away and he seemed his normal self. The doctor and paramedics got his heart started and I thought he would live. They put him into an induced coma, but he never woke up again. After 2 weeks they took him off life support. He kept on breathing for another week, but never regained consciousness.
Hi willow how are you getting on? It’s 13 weeks for me and the pain is unbearable weekends are the worse
Yes, weekends are very lonely. I have a couple of friends who have recently lost their husbands. I have started going to Thai Chi classes on Mondays with one of them. For the last two weeks the other one has come round on Sunday and had lunch. It breaks the weekend up a bit. Xx