Its now been a year a d three months since my beloved passed away i still cry everyday. What I’ve noticed is that everyone is there for you in the beginning but after that its like they loose interest. In all that time no one out side the family circle has even got back to me to ask how I’m doing. Is this normal as i am still grieving and missing my beloved so much:sleepy:
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Hello @Duk45,
I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved partner. Thank you for sharing this with us. I’m just giving your thread a gentle, “bump” for you - hopefully someone will have some thoughts to share.
Take good care,
Alex
I totally get where you are coming from, ive expressed this before, it’s like it’s all over, for them anyway, seems to last a few months and then for them it’s gone. So hard to deal with Shen you are left still grieving and it seems like they have moved on but forgot you can’t.
Don’t know if normal but it’s certainly the same for me.
So, I found this app and others understand on here. Found it a good place to release emotions and feel empathy from those that are in the same place mentally.
Always happy to message if you want x
Dear Duk People who have not been through the loss of someone very dear to them who they have lived with and loved for a lot of years just do not understand. The have got over it in a few months but the partners left behind just cannot manage the loss for a long time, We all still love our lost partner and we all still miss them. I will love and miss Elizabeth for the rest of my life, I just hope to be able to manage the grief better than I can now, So come on here where we all understand and hopefully support one another.
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It’s been 15 months for me. There is no way that my “new life “ will ever compare. We had a lovely marriage of 45 years. I have never lived with another man and he had never lived with another woman. This new reality SUCKS. I would happily give everything that I own to have him back. Our life wasn’t all smiles and joyful, but does anyone have that? I think not. I’m better I don’t cry every day anymore. He will always be mine and I will always be his. Sometimes I get aggravated at the “till death do we part” in our vows. I know we will rejoice together, but that doesn’t make it easier.
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Hi everyone.
I lost my fabulous man just 2 months ago suddenly and at first I seemed to get on ok. I didn’t have any paperwork etc to do as we didn’t live together both having our own houses, so his son is sorting everything
We were only together for two n half years, the best in both our lives, we were contemplating marriage and then wham he’s was gone so unexpectedly.
This past week has been so bad and I can’t understand why. I keep thinking time is meant to be a healer but I now feel worse and I don’t want to…
I think maybe I’m trying to go too much to full time in and it’s probably too soon…It’s exhausting to be honest. I don’t think I own my mind anymore it just goes off thinking of things that are sometimes not real…like scenarios…
Anyone else feel like that .?
I’m so sorry, 2 months is nothing. My husband died 7 months ago and I still weep every day. But not feeling so raw, just very exposed and lonely. As we all are on here. I hope you’re not so tired soon.