Losing a parent

It’s only been 3 weeks since dads death but
So depressed haven’t stopped drinking just can’t be bothered with anything

Hello @John68,

I’m so sorry for the death of your dad. We know that grief can be so painful to cope with. You matter and you don’t have to do this alone.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. In the meantime, you may wish to look at these Sue Ryder resources which might be helpful.

If you are worried about your drinking, there is help available.

  • The NHS website has a guide on getting support with alcohol issues.
  • Alcohol Change offers support to people who are experiencing issues with alcohol.
  • Drinkline is a free, confidential helpline for people who are concerned about their drinking, or someone else’s. Call 0300 123 1110 (weekdays 9am–8pm, weekends 11am–4pm)

The Samaritans are also always there for you, day or night, on 116 123.

Please do reach out for further support - you are important and deserve help.

Take good care,
Seaneen

I’m
Sorry you’re experiencing this, I am currently going through the same thing. It’s awful and so rubbish but keep fighting it will get better.
Please reach out for support with the drinking, this is a Coping mechanism which only numbs temporary and makes you feel worse. It can become an addiction quite easily do you have anything you enjoy that you can replace drinking with? or anyone you can talk to?