This is the 3rd birthday tomorrow without my dear husband 18.11. he would of been 64 to young to have left this world. I feel so cheated that he had been taken from me. All I have been doing is crying. It’s never ends as well as my james been gone It’s 10 years since my dad passed away and it was mum and dads wedding anniversary today. So two days together it’s just so shit. I find it an effort to do anythink anymore I don’t want counselling whats the point it will never bring them back and you only feel better for a while and then you just feel so sad all over again. Why do people say having a counselling helps or in time it gets easier just tell the truth because it dosant.
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Dear Donna,
I’m very sorry for your loss. Funny enough, 18.11 is also my birthday, but it’s not a happy day for me either it marks six months since my partner passed away on 18 May, at just 39.
Life has felt pretty pointless since then. The only thing that gives me any purpose right now are our two dogs. It’s a sad way to live, but I just take each day as it comes. No plans, no expectations, just sleep, eat, work, dogs, and repeat.
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