I have been told by many people that addiction is a choice only themself can stop, nothing we can do, we as a mother stay strong for children xx
@Faye761201 my sons fiancé showed me a video of a lady who lost her husband to alcohol and it talked about how the mothers reaction paves the way for the future behaviours of the children and how important it is to set these standards in our children. Really struck a chord. I understand that only he could of chosen to save himself but I just wish we could have been enough to save him somehow. So very hard to deal with all these emotions on top of the grief. But yes we are mothers first and always and have to remember that we need to show that strength even if we feel like crumbling inside. Sending you some compassion and strength and I’m always near my phone if you want to message me or post on this thread
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Thank you for message and strength, wondering if any group chat we can join to comfort each other? Xx
Would you mind share with me the link of video that your son’s fiancé shared with you ? Xx
I will try and find it for you xx
Thank you, that would be very helpful x