I lost my dad 3 an a half months ago suddenly an its hard i miss him so much when it first happened i was in complete shock thats worn off now an i just feel so sad now an cheated that he was taken so quick i wasnt ready for him to go nobody in my family was an i hate the fact i can never see him again.
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that might be helpful.
Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
So sorry to hear this, Flowers. Your situation sounds like mine. A fit, active, young-at-heart, wonderful man, serving the community and his family, succumbed to a cardiac arrest. Let down by primary care (he had symptoms of ischemic heart disease, which were missed).
I love him and miss him every minute of every day.
You’ve come to the right place - we understand, here.